Don’t resign for less of life, ReSIGN for more of life!
Imagine your son is a gifted gymnast. At the age of 4 he did an impromptu tumbling routine across the living room floor. In first grade he made a monkey out of the monkey bars. You decide to invest in gymnastic lessons. He works hard and becomes all-around state champ his senior year. After completing his college career, paid for by a free athletic scholarship, he has won every major award.
Then, every athletes’ dream comes true: He qualifies for the Summer Olympics. It’s his big opportunity. He’s worked hard. People have invested in him. No doubt he has skills. The training has paid off.
But suddenly, the unthinkable happens. He announces to the world he’s resigning; tapping out. He’s worked hard and now it is time to enjoy life. “I deserve this,” he says.
As a parent, what emotions do you feel? How would you react? What would you say? I know I would be stunned. He is on the verge of doing what he has prepared to do but taps out.
This little story illustrates the choice you face as you near retirement age. You’ve worked for decades to hone your skills in a certain areas. The life experiences gained could fill a book. You’ve been around the block and learned what is important in life. But when you are nearing the moment when you could make a difference, the temptation is to tap out.
All of life is preparation for the next chapter of life when you are able to compete in your own Olympics. All of your skills, experiences, training, and degree from the “School of Screw Up” have prepared you to make a difference in your world and the lives of others.
Why would you retire in the traditional sense of the word and sit back and do nothing? This is your moment to make a difference.
Here’s a couple of ideas of how to put all of your training and skills into use.
- Volunteer at an organization which needs your expertise. Choose a nonprofit which could not afford an expert like you. Make a difference in their world.
- Teach a Sunday School class at church. Find out what age group no one wants to teach and give it a try.
- Join the Peace Corp. That’s right. They still want you. I read last week of a 82 year-old woman making a difference in the Peace Corp.
- If you are mechanical, start a program through your church where you change the oil of single moms for free.
- If you enjoy encouraging others, start a blog to lift the spirits of those who need a boost.
Whatever your experience and passion find a way to use it to make a difference in the world and the lives of others. Retirement is NOT the end but it is the START of a new path for which you’ve been preparing for decades.
The finish isn’t the finish, it’s the start of something new.
Absolutely love the story … or would that be a parable? Really drives the point home so well! Great things yet to come!
Thank you for the reminder Randy!
Thanks, Randy, for putting into words what I have always believed. I am anxious for retirement to allow me the freedom to accomplish the dreams God has been dreaming in me. I can’t wait to see what He had planned next!
So glad to hear we are kindred spirits! Do you have very long until retirement age? Or is that a secret?!
Love this. I agree that getting older is not about sitting around and grumping. It’s about enjoying what you enjoy and contributing what you can contribute. It’s about your on-going life! I’m one-year into retirement and the first thing I learned was that being retired isn’t the end or even anything all that special. It’s just the next phase of your life.
Is there anything you are now doing that you feel makes your life better than before retirement?
Oh yes. Freedom to set my own schedule is my personal favorite. More time to exercise and to fix healthful meals is second, because although I don’t particularly enjoy either cooking or working out, the benefits from doing so are making me feel better/younger than I have in years! Getting outside more, time for meditation, and rarely having to multitask are combining to deepen my spirituality & mindfulness.
I know this isn’t true for everyone, but retirement has been an amazing uncovering of options for me. Raised by midwestern farm-family descendants, I’ve been oriented to work-work-work all my life. Luckily for me, I actually love to work, so I’m not complaining. Just explaining that this freedom of owning one’s own time . . . WOW – that is a delicious surprise I didn’t fully understand was waiting for me.
What an interesting comment! Love your phrase, “delicious surprise!” Perhaps “time” is the new currency of retirement?
Yup. And self-care. So easy for me to get lost in others and lose part of meself.
Great article, Randy. Today is Sunday, normally my wife and I would be in church, but we are on the couch not doing much. It really hits home when something like this cold/flu hits me. After 4 or 5 hours of sitting here, i start to go crazy. It is during this time I am reminded I need to have definite plans for retirement. Sitting around watching TV would not be retirement for me. I might be better off to keep working. Thanks for the reminder of what retirement should be!
Sorry to hear you are sick. How many years until you retire?
I have so many ideas about what I want to do with the skills and experience I have and the ones I want to further hone that I can hardly wait to reFire! Thanks for this article, Randy!
Good to hear from you. Congrats on sharing your PASSION! That’s something missing in so many people. It’s a great start!